You can’t self-help your way out of this part of your life.
You’ve read the books.
You’ve done the therapy.
You’ve learned the language.
And yet… you still don’t know what to do with your life while you’re single.
Single, Empowered & Free is a live, 2-hour virtual workshop for Black & Brown women who are done pretending they’re “fine” while quietly waiting for life to begin.
Let’s be specific.
You:
Can’t self-help book your way out of feeling stuck anymore
Put all your energy into work and call that “being focused”
Tell yourself you’re protecting your peace, when you’re actually avoiding the discomfort of wanting more
Stay home because it’s safe — and convince yourself that means you’re grounded
You tell yourself you’ve de-centered romance because you’re off the apps now.
But if you’re honest:
You’re still acting like the rest of your life hasn’t fully started
You’re postponing the big trips, the financial plans, the long-term visions
You’re saving parts of yourself for a partner who doesn’t exist yet
This isn’t about dating apps.
It’s not about healing your inner child one more time.
And it’s definitely not about “being patient.”
It’s about the uncomfortable truth that you may have built a very intelligent, very peaceful life that is also… very small.
And no one has named that for you — until now.
You know men are not okay —
but knowing that hasn’t freed you.
It’s just made you more disappointed.
And here’s the part that lands hardest:
When you don’t live expansively, you stop feeling like anyone’s priority — including your own.
This isn’t a character flaw.
It’s a pattern.
And patterns don’t break with more insight — they break with interruption and choice.
Nothing dramatic happens when you keep waiting. Life just quietly narrows.
You get more competent… but less alive.
More self-aware… but less activated.
More “at peace”… but less fulfilled.
Years pass while you’re telling yourself you’re being responsible.
That’s not neutrality.
That’s a decision.
This masterclass exists to interrupt that decision.
Single, Empowered, & Free
a live, interactive workshop designed to move you out of waiting and into agency.
This is not therapy.
Not motivation.
Not a community hang.
It is a decision point.
in 2 hours, you will:
Identify where you’ve confused patience with avoidance
See how “not centering romance” still shows up as postponing your life
Understand the systems and narratives shaping your choices — without hiding behind them
Leave with clear, grounded next steps for living now, not later
You won’t leave with a checklist for your whole life. You will leave with something more important:
clarity about where you’ve been stuck — and permission to stop being.
Valued at $300
Buy Now for $ 97
Meet your instructor
Fanny Tristan, LCSW-R
“I’m a licensed therapist who knew that therapy alone wasn’t enough for so many of us — because the real freedom comes when you stop waiting and start living your life for you.”
With over a decade's worth of experience, Fanny has created a tool-kit of personal growth strategies, coaching, and community-building experiences that expose women to the feeling of freedom that sparks new beginnings- opening up a wealth of opportunities they've always wanted and truly deserve.
She’s a Coach, Licensed Trauma Therapist, Retreat Leader, 1st Gen Afro-Peruvian Immigrant, and founder of Her Soul Supply.
We go Live on Januart 12th at 7pm ET
This Workshop is for you if:
✔ You’re high-functioning but restless
✔ You’ve done the inner work and still feel stalled
✔ You’re tired of thinking your way out of a decision you need to make
✔ You’re ready to stop organizing your life around a future partner
This is not for you if:
✘ You want comfort instead of challenge
✘ You’re looking for dating advice or manifestation tactics
✘ You’re not willing to examine how your current choices are keeping you safe and stuck
This space is for women who are ready to be honest — and move accordingly.
By the end of this workshop, you’ll have:
Language for the invisible contracts you’ve been living under
Clarity about what’s actually holding you back (and what isn’t)
A grounded re-orientation toward your life that doesn’t depend on partnership
Momentum — not hype, not pressure, but real movement
This is where self-awareness turns into self-leadership.
Waiting doesn’t make you more ready.
It just makes waiting feel normal.
If you keep resonating with content like this but don’t act, that’s a signal — not a coincidence.
You don’t need more time.
You need a moment that forces a decision.
This is that moment.
This isn’t about finding a quick fix or seeking validation from others—it’s about using your experience as the catalyst for radical personal freedom.
- Fanny
What women are saying:
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"I really enjoyed the women that participated and what they brought to the discussion as well. The insight and knowledge brought me a lot of peace and comfort."
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"This masterclass was eye opening and I was grateful to have a community that felt like home in this masterclass"
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“Phenomenal and worth the investment.”
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"I no longer care what men like or deem feminine… a lot of it seems like lies or contradictory.”
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New List “I really appreciated this! I'm looking forward to writing more reflection”
The Details
🗓 Monday, January 12th from 7pm-9pm ET
🔒 Live only — no replay (presence matters here)
💰 $97 investment
👥 Intentionally intimate space
Why Now?
Because “figuring it out on your own” is taking too long.
Because you’re wasting your prime years worried about what other people think.
Because you deserve to feel free — not just busy, not just productive, but actually free.
Because you’re done carrying guilt for what you didn’t know then — and ready to choose more for yourself now
And because you’re sick of talking about your single status with your friends.
And because You’re wasting your time on meaningless situationships.
If you close this page and do nothing, that’s okay.
Just don’t call it waiting.
Call it choosing to stay exactly where you are.
And if something in you knows you want more than that —
Single, Empowered & Free is your entry point.
FAQs
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This virtual class is packed with insights, live writing exercises, and actionable strategies designed to shift your mindset and help you feel empowered to take your next step right away.
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This workshop focuses on challenging societal systems—like patriarchy, racism, and white supremacy—that add to the emotional weight of being a single woman of color over 30 in today’s society. It’s not about dating strategies or “fixing” yourself but about reclaiming your voice, power, and joy.
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Nope! This is for anyone who wants to unlearn toxic narratives around all kinds of relationships and build a life on their own terms—whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship.
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All sales are final. But we’re confident you’ll walk away with tools and insights that make a lasting impact.