“I shouldn’t have to diagnose you

to help you live your best life

“I HELP SINGLE WOMEN OF COLOR STOP FEELING LIKE THEY'RE RUNNING OUT OF TIME, LOVE, OR OPTIONS AND START BUILDING A LIFE THAT BRINGS THEM THE SUPPORT AND RELATIONSHIPS THEY WANT.”

- FANNY TRISTAN, LCSW-R

I’m Fanny Tristan — Retreat Leader, Women’s Empowerment Coach, Licensed Trauma Therapist, and Founder of Her Soul Supply.
I’m also a mom, wife, daughter of Afro-Peruvian immigrants, and a woman who knows what it feels like to question her worth when life doesn’t go as planned.

After 15+ years as a therapist, I noticed something:
So many women—especially women of color—were coming to me after a breakup or life shift, feeling stuck and wondering:

“Why isn’t this part of my life working?”
“What’s wrong with me?”

They were exhausted from giving too much, doubting their worth, and feeling behind as they watched others settle down or move forward.

We did powerful healing together. But I knew we needed something more expansive than what the therapy room—or the medical model—could offer.

I shouldn’t have to diagnose you just to teach you how to live better, love deeper, and feel free.

So I created Her Soul Supply—a love letter to the woman of color who deserves it all:
✨ Peace
✨ Pleasure
✨ Purpose
✨ People who actually get her

And I get it, because I’ve been her too.

I’ve been the woman who:

  • Stayed too long in the wrong relationship

  • Ignored red flags just to keep something that looked good

  • Felt behind for not hitting certain milestones

  • Let anxiety and self-doubt spiral into loneliness

  • Was leaned on by everyone—while having no one to lean on herself

And I’ve also been the woman who:

  • Chose herself (even when it was hard)

  • Found joy outside of romantic validation

  • Built a life where I’m truly supported and loved

  • Reclaimed my time, my energy, and my self-respect

That transformation changed everything.
Now I help other women do the same—through travel, coaching, and community experiences that awaken something deeper.

If you’re ready to feel more at home in your singlehood, your body, and your relationships—come join me. Let’s get started.

I’M FANNY!

OUR SERVICES

Single, Empowered, & Free

A 90-minute live workshop designed for women of color to break free from the cultural standards that keep them feeling “stuck”

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Coaching Intensive

A 2-hour personal virtual intensive, you’ll get clear on where you are, what’s been holding you back, and how to help you reclaim your power as a single woman

A 12 week group coaching experience for single women of color to de-center romance from their happiness, build healthier connections, while building community

Settle for More

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Restore Her: Retreats

Women-led, local and international travel experiences that help women of color experience freedom and restore themselves through culture and sisterhood.

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