The Village
by Her Soul supply
A community for single Black and Brown women who are ready to stop carrying everything alone, stop wasting time on the wrong relationships, and finally live on their own terms.
Created for Women in the NY Metro Area
You’ve done everything “right.”
You went on the apps. Watched the dating shows and followed the dating coaches.
You’ve read the think pieces — even vented about them with the girls at brunch — and agreed: men are not okay.
But if knowing that were enough, you’d already feel whole.
You’d feel like nothing is missing in your life journey — but you don’t.
Because the truth is, talking about how bad it’s gotten out there doesn’t get you any closer to your fulfillment.
You can understand every red flag, dissect every situationship, and still feel stuck replaying the same cycles.
That’s not failure — it’s fatigue.
You’ve been trying to heal in a world that keeps teaching women like us to overwork, overthink, and overperform just to earn love and respect.
What you’re craving isn’t another analysis of the problem.
It’s a reset — a space to turn that awareness inward, rebuild trust with yourself, and finally feel grounded in your own becoming.
You just want a space — a village — where you can breathe, reset, and be surrounded by women who actually understand what you’re going through.
Women who are choosing a new mindset — one built on quality connection and personal freedom.
You deserve a place to land, not perform.
If you’ve been feeling:
The crushing exhaustion of carrying life alone
The fear of wasting time on the wrong relationships
The guilt and pressure of feeling “behind” on everyone else’s timeline
You’re not broken. You’re not behind.
You’re just ready for something different..
You don’t have to choose between love and self-awareness.
You can still believe in partnership — you’re just done believing it’s the only path to a full life.
The Village was built for women like you: smart, self-aware, and tired of pouring energy into things that don’t pour back.
Here, you’ll build a life that feels rich and rooted — one grounded in clarity, community, and meaningful experiences.
You’ll explore new sides of yourself through art, movement, culture, and conversation — while learning tools that help you make better choices about the relationships and commitments you invite next.
It’s not about swearing off romance.
It’s about getting so aligned with yourself that you never lose your direction in love again.
Because when you know who you are, what you value, and the kind of peace you want to protect — you stop settling for anything that disrupts it.
That’s what The Village teaches:
How to get out of your own way, connect intentionally, and build a future that feels like you — whether someone’s sitting next to you or not.
So… what is The Village?
A structured, supportive ecosystem that blends personal development, connection, and joy — created for single Black and Brown women in the NYC metro area who are ready for more than just talking about growth.
This is your one-stop space for learning, accountability, and experiences that remind you what peace, pleasure, and possibility feel like.
Monthly Theme + Mini-Curriculum
Each month centers around one of Her Soul Supply’s pillars — Agency, Alignment, Expansion — with short lessons, workbooks, and clear action steps you can implement right away.
You’ll dive into:
Personal Skills
Reclaiming your identity after relationships
Getting clear on your personal goals
Breaking cycles of self-sabotage
Leaving your comfort zone
Relationship Skills
Understanding what builds (and breaks) healthy relationships
How we trust, communicate, and create community
Boundaries that protect your energy
Travel and new experiences as self-discovery
Every lesson ends with reflection prompts and real-world action steps — so what you learn becomes how you live.
You Also get…
Weekly Affirmations + Micro-Actions
Every week, receive affirmations, journal prompts, and simple, evidence-informed practices aligned with that month’s theme — keeping you grounded and consistent even when life gets busy.
Exclusive Fireside Chats
Private, members-only conversations with specialists in mental health, spirituality, and wellness — from therapists and financial coaches to movement educators and faith-based healers.
Each chat comes with action notes so you walk away with tools, not just talk.
The Resource Library
A growing archive of everything inside The Village — past lessons, replays, fireside chats, and worksheets — designed especially for women who process deeply or revisit concepts over time.
You can move at your own pace and return to whatever you need, whenever you need it.
Monthly Virtual Support Calls
A monthly 90-minute structured, no-pressure group call where you’ll reflect, set intentions, and celebrate your progress.
Part accountability check-in, part group coaching, part real talk — this is where awareness turns into action.
If you can’t make it live, every call is recorded and stored in your private Resource Library.
Monthly Members-Only In-Person Outings
Because healing should include joy. Each month, we gather across NYC (and nearby NJ + CT) for curated, joy-centered experiences: gallery walks, yoga classes, creative nights, brunches, or dance sessions — experiences that help you reconnect to your body, culture, and curiosity.
Every event includes a light reflection moment so you can celebrate what you’ve learned and how you’re growing.
Member Perks
As a Village member, you’ll always get:
First dibs + exclusive discounts on all public Her Soul Supply events, including:
Workshops — where you dive deeper into personal growth and aligned relationships
Curated dinners — intimate gatherings that blend conversation, culture, and connection
Wellness events — yoga, sound baths, and holistic healing experiences across NYC
Retreats — immersive domestic and international getaways designed for restoration and renewal
Community partner collaborations — experiences with trusted local wellness and creative brands who share our values
Plus, priority invites to special seasonal events and pop-ups — because when we take up space together, everything expands.
A Community That Feels Like Home
This isn’t a “become more desirable” program.
It’s a space to remember that you already are — enough, whole, and capable of your next level.
The Village honors your humanity, your faith, and your individuality.
Because the real work of healing isn’t about fixing yourself — it’s about building a life that fits you.
Meet Your Coach & Village Leader
Hi, I’m Fanny Tristan, LCSW-R — therapist, coach, mother, wife, and founder of Her Soul Supply.
For nearly 15 years, I’ve walked alongside women learning how to trust themselves, find clarity, and live with intention.
I created The Village because I kept hearing the same thing from single women of color:
“I’m tired of doing life alone — I want community that helps me grow.”
As a woman who’s had to rebuild her own sense of home after heartbreak — and as someone who now understands both sides of the journey, from individual fulfillment to partnership — I know that healing and joy don’t thrive in isolation.
Inside The Village, I’ve gathered all the gems and aha moments that have helped my clients move the needle forward — and curated a one-stop space for women ready to define this era by more than the hunt for a “good man.”
Through Her Soul Supply, I’ve helped women across the country decolonize their singlehood mindset, create aligned relationships, release the pressure to settle, rebuild self-trust, and finally stop fearing they’re “falling behind.”
The Village is my way of bringing that work to life — in real rooms, with real women, creating community and connection that lasts.
Come join us — and start building your version of “enough.”
Choose Your Village
Because every woman’s journey looks different — and The Village is here to meet you where you are.
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For women who want consistent structure, support, and joy-filled community.
You’ll get everything you need to stay grounded, connected, and growing — at your own pace.
Includes:
✅ Monthly Theme + Mini-Curriculum
✅ Exclusive Fireside Chats
✅ Weekly Affirmations + Micro-Actions
✅ Monthly In-Person Outings (Members Only)
✅ Resource Library Access
✅ Early Access to Events
💰 Founding Member Rate: $69/month or $699/year
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For women who want deeper coaching, smaller circles, and personalized accountability.
You’ll get everything in The Village, plus a more intimate, hands-on experience designed to help you stay consistent and intentional.
Includes Everything in Tier 1, PLUS:
✅ Monthly Virtual Small-Group Coaching Calls (8–10 women max)
✅ Personalized Accountability Check-Ins
✅ Exclusive Event Discounts💰 Founding Member Rate: $119/month or $1,199/year
Founding Member rates close December 1st.
Join now to lock in your price for the life of your membership.
FAQs
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All our offerings at Her Soul Supply are open to all and curated for the needs of women of color. This means, our services are designed with a focus on addressing topics and concerns that have a great impact on women of the global majority.
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No problem. All calls are recorded and uploaded within 24 hours. You’ll still have access to the material and community support.
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No. This is coaching, education, and community support. It’s not a replacement for individual therapy. To learn more about the difference, check out our Therapy vs Coahing Page.
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Due to the limited spots and depth of this work, there are no refunds. If you’re unsure about your commitment, book a discovery call with Fanny to talk through it.
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No more than 10 women
This is Your Reset.
You’ve been through enough.
You’ve waited long enough.
Now it’s time to take up space in a community built for women like you — women who are ready to grow, rest, and level up together.You don’t have to do life alone anymore.
Your village is waiting.